Friendship is Non-Partisan
A close friend of mine was recently offered a political appointment in the Trump Administration.
This might be difficult to believe, but I do have many Republican friends.
I won’t identify him by name. He can come forward and identify himself, if he wants to.
I heard this story firsthand from my friend a few weeks ago. He even told me quite an amzing story of speaking personally with the President a few times — once during an informal interview, and second, a short follow-up telephone call at which time he was offered the job.
From the way things happened, I expect that he’ll take the job, if he hasn’t already done so. No doubt, he’ll be very good in that position. This person is a hard-working. He’s highly experienced. He’s someone that can be trusted at all times to do the right thing. Our country needs that right now. We will be lucky to have him involved in our government.
However, just before he shared this information with me, he prefaced our conversation by acknowledging my unabashed disgust with President Trump. “I know you can’t stand Trump, but I have to share something with you….” he said. That was the way our conversation started.
Actually, my personal opinions on political issues are totally irrelevant here. We all want our friends to succeed. We all want those closest to us to do well in life, and advance in their careers. We all want key positions in our government to be staffed with qualified people. That’s a non-partisan viewpoint most of us probably share.
After hearing about the details of his political appointment, presumably now pending, I was absolutely thrilled for my friend. What amazing news. How could I not be thrilled? After all, the prestige of being personally picked for such a high position in the federal government by the leader of the executive branch really has no comparison. It doesn’t matter what someone thinks about President Trump or President Obama before that, and so forth and so on — that’s one of the highest honors in public service, to be chosen from millions of people and then personally asked by the President to take a job in a new administration.
Indeed, my reaction would be the same for anyone who’s asked to serve — be it for a position in a Donald Trump Administration or a Bernie Sanders Administration. Success is success. Friendship is friendship.
This is something we should all pause and remember, moving on in the weeks and months ahead. While I shall continue to do everything within my power to stop the Trump Administration from imposing what I consider to be a dangerous and destructive agenda for America, I shall also applaud those I know who are good people for now getting to experience one of the rarest of opportunities in anyone’s professional life — which is to work for the White House.
Before writing this, I’d never thought much about this before, and I certainly don’t have any poll data to back up the following claim. However, my best guess is that I have roughly an equal number of friends and family members who are either liberal or conservative, or somewhere in the middle. The people I run around with are all over the map, politically speaking.
If I’ve lost any friends from expressing my political views, or engaging in discussions that might have turned into arguments, then I’m not aware of it. Perhaps some people who I mistakenly thought were friends no longer reach out anymore, or like to hang around. But I can’t name a single person who was banished from my inner circle of trusted friends based on their political viewpoints. To the contrary, I hope the best for all of them.
Hence, when one of those friends told me that he be might be working for President Trump, I write now what I said to him then: Congratulations. I believe the President made an excellent choice.
Go for it. Do your best. Make a difference.